For ages women have come together over coffee and cocktails to analyze the puzzling behavior of men. Greg Behrendt and Liz Tucillo are here to say—despite good intentions—you’re wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although they’d like you to think they are. The truth may be HE’S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. HE’S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU if he’s – Not asking you out Too busy to pick up the phone Doesn’t like the words ‘relationship’ or ‘boyfriend’ Based on a popular episode of Sex and the City, this book educates smart women on how to tell when a guy doesn’t like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship.